Today I’m pleased to hand the blog over to author, Amy Sparling as part of Phantom Summer Blog Tour hosted by Dianne of Oops! I Read A Book Again! Amy will discuss a little about on how she conquer writer’s Block. She’s also generously offering up a $50 Amazon GC and a signed copy of her novel Phantom Summer below, so make sure to check that one out. Welcome to Blackplume Amy!
Amy Sparling on Writers Block
I was excited when Maricar offered the topic “Writing through writer’s block” as an option for my guest post. I know what you’re probably thinking: Writers Block is sooooooo over-written about, over-talked about, over-advised about. I know, I know, it is. But mine’s different. And I’ve been waiting for an opportunity to talk about it.
The common image people think of when faced with the term Writer’s Block is that of a frazzled writer, sitting at the computer with a frustrated look on their face as they spend hours staring at the blinking curser, wishing they could think of the words to write.
This is SO not the case with me. I have never once sat down and not had any words to write. At any given time, I have a dozen stories swirling about my head, begging to be transformed from an intangible brain-mush into physical words on paper. My form of writer’s block is different.
My block is emotional, not mental.
I’ve been writing seriously since 2008 and it didn’t take me long to notice a pattern with my writing style: If I’m not happy, I’m not writing. The sad and pathetic fact is that any lapse in my mental happiness will send me into a hardcore mental block that will not allow me to write a single word. It doesn’t matter how excited I am about a story, or how well-outlined and detailed my plot is—if I get in an argument with a loved one, or my car gets a flat tire, or my boss yells at me, welp you can forget it. I won’t be writing a single word.
When these things happen, I can’t just suck it up and get over it. I have to make myself happy again. When I’m happy, the words flow out of my fingers like… well, like how something flows out of something else. How’s that for a writerly metaphor?
Here are a list of tried and true things that will take me out of my grumpy mood and into a happy, writing-friendly one:
- Walk the dog
- Go for a run
- Any sort of exercise – the harder, the better
- Grab a Harry Potter book and read a few chapters aloud to my daughter
- Bitch about it to my man until he offers to take us somewhere fun
- Eat obscene amounts of junk food until the emotional pain has been drowned in calories
Whatever I do, I don’t write. Because anything I write while upset will always turn out to be a horrible mess of words that shouldn’t represent me as an author.
If you suffer from the same sort of Writer’s Block as me, remember this: Don’t stress about the words. Write the words when you’re happy again and you’ll be grateful you didn’t force yourself to write when you weren’t ready.
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- $50 Amazon Gift Card and
- SIGNED paperback of PHANTOM SUMMER
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